Preface: I begin the body of this post with a sincere apology to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. I am going to borrow some of his very powerful words, but I do so meaning no disrespect. His words are the ones needed to adequately express what must be said. So, Dr. King? I am sorry if you would have found this offensive in any way. The ELCA has released the draft of their long anticipated
Social Statement on Sexuality. This product already represents a compromise, and as compromises are measured, this must be a pretty good one, because it satisfies neither side of the much debated issues of blessings or ordination. The folks working hard for the inclusion of the glbt community in the fullest possible life of the church to include blessing of relationships and ordination of partnered glbt persons are not happy, nor are the folks convinced that offering blessings or ordination would spell out the failure of the ELCA to be "prophetic in a culture that urgently needs to hear God's word.", according to the statement of Word Alone's Mark Chavez.
LC/NA's Emily Eastwood has responded by encouraging graceful engagement from within. She voices a hope that the glbt community will speak up, speak out, and tell their stories of families and faith so that in combination with resting upon the guidance of the Holy Spirit, the church and its members will be moved to "acceptance and celebration of the full inclusion of LGBT people and their families."
I completely understand the desire for the glbt community to speak out and share their stories. It is time the church started talking
to the glbt brothers and sisters in Christ already in our midst, rather than
about them. I have heard the same sentiment voiced in my congregation, where it was said that "if" the glbt in our midst would gently challenge us by placing flowers on the altar to celebrate the anniversaries of their partnerships, or insist upon baptising infants with two Moms or two Dads during a regular Sunday morning service, "then" people will stand by them and speak up for them.
And I will confess to you that I used to feel the same way. If only, I thought, every glbt person would stand up and speak their truth to us, then we would see that we have nothing to fear. If they could just be brave enough to do that, I figured, then we could be brave enough to receive them with love.
But I tell you today. I have changed my mind.
I now feel that in order for lasting change to happen in the ELCA, much less in society at large, it will take something other than courageous lgbt folk who will stand up and speak out to potentially face the all too familiar negative reception groups have typically handed them for their attempts to fully participate.
I believe that for the ELCA to reclaim self respect it will take the strong voices of the hundreds and thousands of hitherto silent straight members of this denomination and of every family of faith everywhere, speaking together to quash the fears and small mindedness of the minority who would seek to use the words of Scripture to enslave and reduce the humanity of a group they consider "outsiders", "other", the "strangers" within our midst.
I say this in response to recently re-reading the words of Martin Luther King Jr., taken from the transcript of remarks he made at a planning meeting for the Montgomery Bus Boycott in December of 1955. King stated "And we will not be content until oppression is wiped out of Montgomery and really out of America. We won't be content until that is done. We are merely insisting on the dignity and worth of every human personality. And I don't stand here, I'm not arguing for any selfish person. I've never been on a bus in Montgomery.
But I would be less than a Christian if I stood back and said because I don't ride the bus, I don't have to ride a bus, that it doesn't concern me. I will not be content. I can hear a voice saying, "If you do it unto the least of these, my brother, you do it unto me.". (Italics mine)
In this same way I will say here to you - we straight folk with all our privilege and status and legal protections ought to NEVER be content until oppression of the glbt community is wiped out of the ELCA and out of America. Entirely. We ought to insist, with our every breath, upon the dignity and worth of every human personality.
I am not gay or transgender. Neither are any of my immediate family members. But I would be less than a Christian if I stood back and said that this does not concern me. This concerns me because the Word of God that Mark Chavez and Word Alone are trying to lay exclusive claim to, absolutely compels me to regard every other child of God as fully equal to my own self, and even more importantly, fully equal in the eyes of God.
As King wrote, "The highest court of justice is in the heart of man after the light of Christ has illumined his motive and all his inner life. Any day when we waken to the fact that we are making a great moral decision, any day of experienced nearness to Christ...we see ourselves [that] is a day of judgement."
It ought not require future lines of brave lgbt persons walking to the microphone in any more Assemblies, or the speaking up of any more lgbt congregation members in adult forums or class discussions to move this denomination to fully accept, once and for all, every single child of God into the fullest participation of the life of this church. We ought to do this because it is right and just for us to do so as Christians.
We make a promise to every person baptized to accept them as fellow members of our family, as full participants in the Body of Christ. We must begin to keep that promise, unconditionally. To see that the Body of Christ, our church, is fully represented and fully representative. We must heed the demand of Paul that Lydia makes "If you have judged me to be faithful to the Lord," (as he had done with her baptism) "come and stay at my home". We must "come and stay with our glbt brothers and sisters in their homes" because we are a Christian people. We make this appeal based upon the idea that (King again)"justice is love correcting that which revolts against love.".
As we are immersed in the waters of baptism and so become one with Christ, we must then accept full authority to greet, receive and protect every one of our brothers and sisters as we live out the good news of Jesus Christ.
To do otherwise is to put ourselves "outside", to make our own selves "other" to the Body of Christ, "strangers".
In one sense I fully agree with Mark Chavez of Word Alone. We in the ELCA ought to work together to be prophetic to "a world that urgently needs to hear God's word."
That prophetic word must be "our church should not discriminate".
We must refuse to accept any statement or process that would hold any one of us as "less blessed". We are all in bondage to sin and cannot free ourselves. Only the forgiveness of God can do that, and we are not - thankfully - the arbiters of that forgiveness.
Wake up, ELCA! Break the chains of any policy or statement that needlessly discriminates. Let us all walk out of our prison cell together, no longer separated, a whole and holy people once more.